Obstacles do not block the path, they’re the path!

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Life is long, there is a long way to go. There are many obstacles and space in between on which, we should try not to stumble. But we really can’t find a smooth and plain way. We cannot reach to our destiny without passing the obstacles. Those obstacles are depression, social anxiety, and stress. Which may lead our life to a bad destiny, which we don’t deserve. How to live without hardships? No one ever had a perfect life! Everyone had problems, some died with them and some got to find out how to cross the obstacles. Are you one of them who is struggling to find out the way? Life is all messed up you know, it is never perfect and nor be. There are many highs and many lows in our life, I can’t explain what happened from right to left. But, only I know what I go through! They say:

“First cut is the deepest, It all happens for a reason”

_ Tate McRae.

Hold on while you’re still falling, falling deep into ocean of thoughts. But, it all be clear in a minute, wait for that minute to come. But waiting for that minute will take million of our minutes. But hold on and hold on, everything will be alright, you’ll be alright.

I say I’m alright but I might be not. I’ll wait for this darkness to become my sunrise. And I’ll wait as long as I’ve got stars to count. As long as my heart beats, as long as I can control my tears.

“I’m drawning and drawning in my own ocean, I filled with tears”.

Idontwannabeyouanymore…

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Hi, Today you’re not what you thought you’d to be. What you thought in your childhood, maybe for living the same happy life but no it didn’t work. Right? You cry everyday feeling like you’re the who’s wrong. Nah man, you’re more than everything in this universe. Look in the mirror. What do you see? A girl with broken heart. Who spend night and nights crying. Does she look depressed? Yeah she obviously do. She is just a child and going through alot of suffering. Deep thoughts and words. She thinks she’s ugly and she wants to kill herself. She doesn’t knows that she is beautiful. Beautiful the way she is. Nothing is prettier than person’s heart. But did she know her worth? No, she don’t, she think she’d better die than living, to her, her life is disgusting. She doesn’t know she have to make her own happiness and whole new world. She can just change it in seconds. How? She has no idea. She thought she found a way, but she don’t. Tell her! not be that, falling apart thrice a day. I could wish she could feel what she said. Ask her! to show you, never tell cause you know her too well. She got a mood that I’d wish I could sell. Actually you don’t wanna be her anymore. You hate her, her everything. Everyone is depressed, even though models they’re going through such rough time. She thinks she was made from a broken mold. She tried to fit in the society and they broke her too hard. Ask her! to Just stop getting stress, and don’t feel the words anymore. They’re meaning less. We all say we’re fine but we don’t feel it. The emotional crisis I feel, I have. I’m saying I love myself while I’m actually telling myself that I don’t want to be myself anymore. My hands are getting cold as I’m getting old. They don’t know what happened but I know it all. Telling a face with mask is what makes you a whore.

Idontwannabeyouanymore!

21st Century World…. Not a good one!

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Hi! Are you fine, you okay? Because I’m not. I’m hurt by the people I know, I believe em and I end up being hurt. What I say that I’m fine but my I’m fine has alot of words behind it. Everyone’s life is depressed, not only mine for sure. I get discouraged sometimes by myself. I’m not slandering anyone is what I always say but I end up slandering them. That’s how I got hurt by my own self. I feel like I’ve done my best on project and end up being called mad. Because, 21 century is nothing better than the early 19s. People had a lovely life back then, without any technologies or any social bullies. In my opinion, Life was much more better. People nowadays can’t stop discouraging someone, getting them in trouble. It does hurt, don’t you agree? 21 century is not a good time. Where young girls focus on fashion and trend while their olders are busy in spending day out. That’s what happening. Everything is going in a bad way. People take drugs nowadays, just because they can’t handle the pain anymore. The overdose it, and end up dying. Bullying is at its peak this century. They call people wrong in what the do, people are told not to do anything or else they’ll be killed or harmed. Each and everything is going on a bad way. And our earth is ending up being people having no education and wasting their time on social media. Which only harms them, and leave scars to their mind. Everything can be used in a good way. You can use it to increase its information. Your self-confidence. But nah man! This century sucks!

Be yourself..

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Here are some post from the series yourself!

Love yourself, I’ll be posting embrace yourself soon ♡


I have a question, have you ever tried to copy someone? Maybe in a right way? Everyone has, I used to do it too. But as I grew up, i got to learn that instead of copying someone. We should make our own style. The way we live, we style should inspire other. Being inspired by someone is not wrong, but copying is not a chance as you can do it better your own. Because who know that how could you do better than him or her. You should have your own originality. People should get inspired by the way you look, you talk. I repeat that getting inspired is not a bad thing but may be it could be considered a good thing but copying Nah! It doesn’t work for everyone. Actually, being yourself is worth more than copying anyone else. You should try to be original as much as you can, enhance if you think that you’re not good at something. But never try to copy it from someone. Someone once said that

“Don’t set sail by using someone’s else star!”

You got it? Right. Let’s move on if you keep copying something remember you’ll always be one step behind them. Copying others is okay, but being original is an art. Because each one of us hate copycats, don’t we? There’s another saying

“You know you’re winning, when you see you’re being copied”

Don’t copy me, I’m tired of having a clone. It frustrates us sometimes, if someone does copies us. But it’s okay, as I said in the previous quote, it’s dope. Lol I’m sorry I’m so awkward. And also don’t forget to comment down what you think about this topic, I’m waiting for your comments.

SincerelyDua,

Loads of love.

Remember! Donot discourage someone in what they do….

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Remember! Do not discourage someone in what they do. It really hurts. The pain goes straight to their heart as they’ve worked hard to complete that. I’ve experienced it alot in my life. Sometimes people interrupt in your life start calling your work wrong. I really request to each and everyone to not do it again. As everyone has experienced discouragement even once in their life. And they know the pain, how much it hurts. If you work hard on a thing and don’t get appreciate. Your heart breaks Into million pieces. It does happens. Imagine, if you did a lot of hard work for a project and then you just got discouraged as people say it’s not good. It happens. The person gets frustrated and have depression. Which is not good for someone’s health. You all know that everyone wants to get praised. Even you too, don’t you? Discouraging is not good for the worker or even the person. If you discourage some one you will not be liked in your society. Because, they will call you a bad personality just because Discouraging is like throwing water to someone’s art. It ruins everything, and the person ends up in pain. With alot of tears in their eyes. So appreciate everyone’s work, there is a better way if you think something is not correct, just suggest them to change it. Explain them as a friend. Thank you for understanding 🙂

Awake

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I know I can’t do it. This is not because I don’t believe in me. I’m trying to hold my dreams. Because that’s all I can do. I don’t want to die, I just want to dream more. Even, if I’m saying that is time to leave dreaming. It is my truth that I’ll be covered with wounds all around. And it’s my fate, but I’m still struggling and fighting. But, maybe even after all this. I say that maybe I can never fly. I can never fly like those petals over there. If I had wings, so I could touch the sky. But, I still want to stretch my hand out. I want to run, just a little bit more. I’m just walking and walking in this darkness. My happy times ask me if I’m okay. Oh no, I replied no! I’m so afraid. I have 7 flowers in my hand and I’m just walking and walking having no idea about my life. But I’m still struggling and fighting to get what I want. My dreams, but I just can touch the sky. I can not fly. Maybe I can try to. I, not okay!

Where to find peace?

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Are you depressed, broken? Want peace? I have a solution. First of all.

As human beings, one of the greatest desires in life is the search for peace.Many psychologists argue that the greatest human drive is the search for peace, that whatever humans do, they do so seeking peace and tranquility.Similarly, one of the names of Paradise in the Quran is Dar As-Salam (House of Peace). One of the names of Allah is As-salam , the Perfect, the source of the peace. The word Islam itself is related to the word “salam” which means peace.Imam Ibn Taymiyyah said that there is a paradise on this earth, which one needs to enter, to enter the paradise of the hereafter. This paradise, he says, is the tranquility and contentment of the heart.Contentment of the heart is a very difficult trait to have. The world around us, and things that happen to us usually make us very troubled individuals.

The Road to Tranquility

However, like anything in Islam, the road to tranquility is not a state of being. It is a path that has to be walked upon and deeds that need to be done in order for us to reach that station where we are at peace with ourselves.

Part of the desire to achieve tranquility has been embedded in ourselves. Allah put inside of us an emptiness that can only be filled by Allah. Imam Ibn al-Qayyim writes a profound paragraph on this.

“In the heart, there is a sense of untidiness which can only be gathered by turning to Allah

And in the heart there is a sense of loneliness which can only be removed by coming closer to Allah

And in the heart there is fear and anxiety, which only leaves by fleeing to Allah

And in the heart there is a sense of regret, which can only be removed by being satisfied with Allah.”

Tranquility and serenity can only arrive when we reach a position where we know the reality of our life, and the Majesty of Allah. It is understanding the verse of Surah Ar-Rahman where Allah says:

Everything on earth will perish. But the face of your Lord full of Majesty and Honor remains. (Quran 55:26-7)

Whatever is on earth will perish. Whatever it is that makes us worried, will perish. Whatever makes us sad, will go away. Whatever makes us irritable and angry is transient.

Everything that is done without seeking the pleasure of God will just go, but that which is done seeking His pleasure and His Grace, will endure and live on. This changes our perspective on life completely.

Death, loss, heartbreak, and detachment are no longer as painful as they used to be, because at the end of the day, expectations come down to zero.

When one expects nothing, everything they get is a source of pleasure, and everything they do not get is a not something that is that troublesome.

The focus in life becomes Allah, Master of the Universe, not how many likes one gets on Facebook, who likes their picture, who gave a compliment, etc.

Life seems much more than these petty issues. One learns to forgive those who hurt them, cherish those who love them, and to subdue the ego, because what use is an ego for one who is going to be worm buffet six feet under the ground two days later?

Writer Jose Addison said that human beings need three things to be happy— something to do, something to love, and something to hope for. All of these can be found in this verse of the Quran:

And hasten to forgiveness from your Lord and a garden as wide as the heavens and earth, prepared for the God-conscious. (Quran 3:133)

1- Understand the Majesty of Allah

Understand who Allah is, and how great He is.

One who understands the greatness of Allah will find peace knowing that everything else is petty and small.

2- Understand the Reality of this Life

When we know that life is more than just the “bling bling” that we see, we understand that at all times our focus should be forward-thinking. Understanding that the next life is everlasting helps us in keeping our focus and not losing our minds over the affairs of this world.

3- Remembering Allah at all times helps us keep our focus.

Human beings are prone to forgetfulness and the constant remembrance of quran. reminds us of Allah at all times and places. One of the advice of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was:

Keep your tongue moist with the remembrance of Allah.(At-tirmindi)

Allah says:

In the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest. 🙂

4- Be Thankful

If you are thankful, I will increase you. (14:7)

If we are thankful, Allah will give us more and more of everything that we have and even more. He will keep increasing us, and it will also be in the form of our tranquility.

5- Be Content with Allah’s Decree

One of the best roads to tranquility is being content with Allah.

It is in understanding that no matter what happens to us, Allah’s plan is best. When we are content with Allah’s decree, we will work hard, we will do our best but be content with whatever result comes our way.

Allah’s decree is Divine, and not always understandable to us in the here and now. Only when we look back do we understand how Allah’s plan was perfect. Allah’s plan for us is the best for us, and knowing that makes life incredibly peaceful.

May Allah make us people who are tranquil in life, and tranquil in death.

May Allah make us among those who hear this call:

O tranquil soul, return to your Lord, pleased and pleasing to Him. Enter My Garden, Enter my Paradise. (Quran 89:26-30)

Asalamu Alaikum!

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